Empowering Parents: How to discuss your child's diagnosis

Parents play a crucial role in their child's education, especially when it comes to understanding and supporting children with dyslexia. Dyslexia is a common learning difference that affects how the brain processes written and spoken language, making reading, writing, and spelling challenging for individuals with dyslexia. However, with the right interventions and support, children with dyslexia can thrive academically and reach their full potential.

A thoughtful conversation about dyslexia can transform confusion and fear into understanding and empowerment. By approaching the topic with care and clarity, you can help your child feel supported and active in their own learning journey.

1. Choose the Right Moment

Select a quiet, familiar space—such as your child’s bedroom or living room—where distractions are minimal. Avoid high‑stress times like just before school or bedtime, and plan the discussion when everyone is calm. To make the explanation more concrete, prepare simple visuals such as diagrams illustrating how we map letters to sounds or a short, animated clip that explains the reading process.

2. Use Strengths‑Based Language

Reframe the narrative to focus on your child’s unique learning style rather than deficits. For example, say “Your brain learns in a unique way” instead of “You have a problem reading.” Highlight their talents—perhaps creativity or storytelling—and model positive self‑talk by sharing your own challenges and coping strategies. This approach builds confidence and frames dyslexia as one aspect of a broader profile of strengths.

3. Explain Dyslexia Simply

Use relatable analogies to demystify dyslexia. Comparing reading to riding a bike—where some need more practice and different supports—helps make the concept accessible. A clear diagram showing how letters correspond to sounds can illustrate why that mapping may be tricky, and a brief, two‑minute animated explainer can bring those ideas to life.

4. Address Feelings and Fears

Validate your child’s emotions by acknowledging that frustration is normal and that learning differently can be challenging. Share inspiring stories—such as Agatha Christie’s success despite dyslexia—to show that many accomplished people have similar experiences. Encourage your child to ask any questions, and answer them honestly to foster trust and openness.

5. Set a Positive Plan

Outline the supports you’ll put in place, such as tutoring sessions, assistive technology tools, or extra time in class. Involve your child in setting one or two SMART goals—specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time‑bound—like “I will read one extra page each day.” Finally, schedule brief weekly check‑ins to celebrate progress and adjust the plan as needed.

More helpful information can be found here: https://www.dyslexiaoutreach.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/Understanding-Dyslexia-A-guide-for-families-7-11-years-old.pdf